In the run-up to Christmas, separated parents often find themselves navigating difficult conversations about where the children will spend the holidays. Even if contact routines have been well established throughout the year, the festive period can bring unique pressures.
Questions such as Who will have the children on Christmas Eve, Christmas Day and Boxing Day? can quickly become contentious. Without early planning, misunderstanding or last-minute disagreements can arise. Sometimes resurfacing old tensions at an already emotional time of year.
Christmas time arrangements: How to prepare
The festive season is often filled with excitement, celebration and family traditions. However, for separated parents, it can also bring added stress, particularly when child arrangements for Christmas have not yet been agreed. Reaching an early, clear arrangement helps ensure that the holidays are enjoyable and stress-free for everyone, especially the children.
Why Christmas contact can become complicated
In the run-up to Christmas, separated parents often find themselves navigating difficult conversations about where the children will spend the holidays. Even if contact routines have been well established throughout the year, the festive period can bring unique pressures.
Questions such as Who will have the children on Christmas Eve, Christmas Day and Boxing Day? can quickly become contentious. Without early planning, misunderstanding or last-minute disagreements can arise. Sometimes resurfacing old tensions at an already emotional time of year.
How Mediation Can Help
At Clark Willis, our accredited family mediators are frequently instructed to help separated parents reach practical, child-focused solutions. Mediation offers a safe, supported environment where both parents can be heard and can work together to agree arrangements that meet their children’s needs.
If you feel stuck, unheard or are going round in circles, mediation can provide the structure and guidance needed to move forward constructively.
We always recommend beginning this process as soon as possible. Early discussions give both parents clarity, reduce stress and offer children the stability they deserve.
Negotiation
Where mediation is not appropriate or breaks down, our specialist Family Law Team, working across our Darlington and Northallerton offices, can advise you on your legal options. We will try and assist you in negotiating a resolution.
Child Arrangement Court Orders
In certain circumstances a court application might be necessary.
We can help you understand:
- Whether a court application is necessary
- What arrangements the court may consider
- How to put forward your case clearly and effectively
The earlier you seek advice, the more options you are likely to have available.
How We Can Support You
If you need help agreeing child arrangements for Christmas, or discussions are becoming difficult, our highly experienced Family Law team is here to assist. We provide practical advice, tailored support and clear guidance to help you secure arrangements that work for you and your children.
Please contact us at your local office (Darlington 01325 281111 and Northallerton 01609 765765) visit our website at www.clarkwillis.co.uk or email family@clarkwillis.co.uk
